Ideal for a Couple

What is the most important aspect in parenting for a couple?

Every answer might be different.

What I have found unites couples is to discover a parenting style that allows both to “sing from the same hymn sheet”.

Sometimes a mother might call me and confide in me that she feels like “the weaker link”.

Her experience of threats of old only lead to lowered self-esteem in the long-term.

She only knows to revert to the extreme opposite which is to be permissive and to give into her strong-willed & empathy-filled child.

This often results in her feeling like a doormat.

In recent years, the number of single parents has increased.

Some clients are sent to me individually to attend a parenting training as a result of a court order.

Many wonder why the law can force a couple to learn about effective parenting skills AFTER a relationship has ended.

Would it not make so much more sense to learn skills together proactively? They ask.

Wanting to address a problem at the root cause rather fixing the symptom, I created a service that is ideal for a couple.

My ‘V.I.P. Offer’ for Very Interested Parents accompanies one couple over 3 months to address one main struggle.

Past clients have shared that it drastically reduced tensions around the:

“I am doing it right and you are wrong” mentality.

When one parent is more punitive, the other tends to be more lenient.

While this is an attempt to bring balance, my observation is that the burden of resentment grows and the load builds up on the camel’s back.

Then … and you know how this story ends … all it takes is a straw to break the camel’s back.

It is not a judgement of fathers when I share that more mothers tend to leave a relationship “for the sake of their children”.

I strongly believe that the solution for mothers carrying “the lioness’ share of emotional parenting” will come from men AND women together.

Male caregivers want to support the matriarch and want her to be happy.

I support modern and progressive families by creating your parenting toolbox over 6 private and confidential sessions with you.

Together we take your current challenge and look for opportunities to build skills for your child that can last a lifetime.

From:

🌱 Dawdling to effective time management

🌱 Defiance to considerate leadership

🌱 Sibling rivalry to mutual respect

🌱 Giving up to consistency & perseverance

🌱 Self-centeredness to contribution & co-operation

Save €100 (before the price increase) when booking my V.I.P. Offer by the 30^th September ‘25 and receive life-long access to my parenting training video library.

This service gives you unlimited access to connecting with me.

Click here: https://www.effortlessparenting.ie/event-info/v-i-p-very-interested-parents

It is an incredibly worth-while investment into the emotional well-being of the future adult you are guiding and treasure beyond belief.

(Confirming humanity: written by annett)