What is it about?
Real life
parenting
stories
Practical, experiential activities
Lifetime
access
Why you will benefit
Practising the courage to be imperfect
9 Modules
1
Defiance to Co-operation
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Longterm parenting goal
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Your family's values
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Learning life skills
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Children feeling capable about themselves
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Parenting style that is: neither punitive, nor permissive
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An undeniable need, every parent must know about
After this module you will know how to:
parent from the golden
middle, neither give out
nor give in
2
Belief behind Behaviour
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4 Cornerstones worth having for a parenting foundation
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Why a child misbehaves: not what most assume
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Crack the code - become a "Child-decision-making detective"
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Due vs. undue attention
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Tantrums & power struggles: tried and tested solutions
After this module you will know how to:
redirect challenging
behaviour and feel more self-aware
3
Self-regulation
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From seeing red to "back to calm"
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Parents' rights and boundaries
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Empower yourself & your child
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Action guided self-awareness
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Child's growth mindset
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Motivate him or her to learn
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Inner fulfilment instead of approval seeking and external validation
After this module you will know how to:
guide a child from
discouragement to feeling competent & in control
4
Listening & Communication
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Being heard
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Healthy boundaries & guilt-free interactions
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Shame-, blame- & judgement-free conflict resolution
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From rescuing & doing for to stimulating contribution
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Growing up as part of a family unit & respecting that others have their own lives to live
After this module you will know how to:
draw forth a child's
resiliency to thrive
through the ups and
downs of life
5
Focus on Solutions
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Mutually respectful problem solving skills
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​Family meetings: all want to come back to
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Consequences only work if...
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Making agreements that last
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Follow through (hitting, fighting and shouting)
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Why change is slow, takes time and patience
After this module you will know how to:
apply secret ingredients
so that consequences aren't perceived
negatively by a child
6
Sibling Dynamics
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Experience the Birth Order position different to your own
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Eldest, middle, youngest & only children's beliefs
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Sibling Rivalry - is it normal?
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Brothers & sisters fighting: parent reacts differently
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In case of violence: say/do this
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Supporting tools for siblings to respect one another
After this module you will know how to:
balance the attention all
siblings receive and
ensure each child
feels loved
7
Making Mistakes
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Have courage to be imperfect
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Teaching responsibility and accountability
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Recovery and repair after "not getting it right"
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Guiding a child without criticism
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Allowing a perfectionist's expectations
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Ending self-censoring and self-condemnation
After this module you will know how to:
lead a child to take
ownership of their actions with a willingness to
self-correct
8
Time out is "out"
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Dysregulation & anger: as part of the full spectrum of emotions
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Introducing time management from 3 years of age
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Incentivising vs. pocket money and allowances
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Replace reward charts (long-term ineffective) with this self-evaluating, self-reflecting and intrinsic efficiency method
After this module you will know how to:
inspire self-discipline,
self-reliability & a self- nurturing outlook on life
9
Compassionate Curiosity
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"I should..." statements aren't where reality can be found
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Inquiry Based Stress Reduction invites you to:
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Identify an unquestioned belief
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Put it on paper
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Question if it is true?
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Free yourself from how others treat your child, trust your own actions & find inner peace
After this module you will know how to:
gain confidence in your parenting skills & allow others their different
perspective & opinion
How you will feel:
